Have you ever been trying to fit into something? A dress? Or maybe a shoe? Or A car? I've always had problems when it comes to fit into trousers or jeans. That's because i've got a big butt and a kinda chicken-wing-shaped upper thigh. Oh ya, a big waist too =)
I still remembered the day i tried to fit into those levi's jeans you know. A first-timer has no idea about levi's are being categorized into numbers( men/ Boys/ Sir/ gentlemen) and all sorts of curves( women/ ladies/ girls/ mademoiselle). And all i know was, I AM LOOKING FOR A PAIR OF SKINNY JEANS.
It took me almost half an hour inside the fitting room, for i have ABSOLUTELY NO IDEA about the curve that suits me the most. In the end, i fit into a bold curve one and few days ago i measured myself according to the website http://www.levi.com.my/my/women/room/#intro and found out that i really suits bold curve the most. =.=
Well, this is not the reason why i decided to post a FIT IN topic. Fitting in does not imply to things you wear or use ONLY. One actually needs to fit into one's LIFE. Come on, what's the use of fitting into your shoes or dresses or anything that does not have any relevance to LIFE when you can't even get a LIFE?
Imagine you being there, in the middle of the crowd. Well it doesn't matter if you have TRUE friends surrounding you all the time because you will never get left out if you guys really are TRUE FRIENDS. But How if you are in a new area, where no one doesn't know you? And still you don't even dare to speak or ask or try to fit in. For god sake, what's the use of your mouth being zipped up all the time? Are you a Fish? Or the mouth is just for Decorations so that people will not run away calling ALIEN ON EARTH the moment they saw you? It's just a metaphore no big deal.
Even if you Can SPEAK doesn't mean that you definitely, 100%, sure, confirm, can fit into the crowd. For example, a 7-y-o kid was given a Bra and she wear it as a panty( I know i know it's just a metaphore!). Such a waste for the bra, aunty, you should have given it to me i am in need for BRAS.
Knowing what to talk at a certain situation is therefore very important to fit in. Here's an example of making your life a disaster:
A: Hi
B: *smiles
A: How's your holiday?
B: It's just okay.
A: What have you been doing the entire holiday then?
B: Nothing i guess. ( It's a FULL STOP)
A: Then doing NOTHING the entire holiday is OKAY?
B: Yeah.
A: Have you done your homework then?
B: Yea.
A: Then you call that as doing NOTHING?
B: Uh-uh.
A: *Sigh.. Then suddenly:" Whoaa a new Nike Bag!"
B: Yea.
A: Is that all?
B: Hurh? ( Finally a question mark)
A: Fine. *walks away
Never try to be B!. You are trying to fit in man fit in! B is soooo lame isn't it? Nah don't care it' just an example.
Among the crowds, there's actually a lot of people who are struggling and trying to fit into a life. Being yourself is good but don't live a lonesome life. Try to fit in while being yourself. If you are shy then try to be open step by step. I am just trying to fit in... that's all...
Will You Fit into My shoes? By Jason Chua
Sorry I didn't ask for your permission =D
