
I've heard some of breaking ups recently. My tomodachi in Riam Tech.. And my dear's friend...
The fact that i Hate break ups will never change.. No one likes break ups..
However, those two break ups i've heard of, are mainly because of the so-called DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP thingy.
Well, it's not like distance relationship will never work. i've got two close friends who are having distance relationship. They did well as normally like how a DAY-DAY-STICK-TOGETHER-COUPLES did. They chat, they sweet-talk( no intimacy though), they fought, but still they stay close together. They meet only a few times in a year, another friend of mine didn't even get to meet with his GF because of his financial problem, he's only waiting for his gf to visit him when she's got the chance. The guy complaint to me that he was being useless but still they are doing great, as amazingly as i thought they are amazing for being able to maintain such an amazing relationship.
It's sweet, seeing couples stick together everyday, every hour, every minute. And as amazingly they won't get bored with each other, it's very amazing that they have each other in every seconds of their life. This kind of togetherness is not what every couples can withstand of. Different couples have different ways and style of maintaining their relationship and moving on with their lives. I am in between those two though. =)
But what makes a relationship a failure? Mainly, it's because of the lack of TRUST. There's several Main Trust that some couples need to know :-
1.Distance-Trust, ( Awww~ There's this thing call : 'even when we are apart, you'll always be in my heart', though sometimes i don't really approve on it. )
2.Togetherness-Trust,
3.Time-Spending-Trust, (give each other some personal time, the world is not always between YOU AND ME ONLY)
4.Money-Trust, 5.Intimacy-Trust, ( Once in a while, intimacy is needed. It keeps your relationship boiling. ^^ )
6.Opposite-Sex-Trust ( For some cases, homosexual did happen even when you are heterosexual. Be careful. LOL!)
7.Life-style-Trust 8.Honesty-Trust
9. blablabla
10. etc. ( slacking off....)
Well, every couple have their very own way to trust each other though. I just hate break ups and it doesnt change the fact that it's Prince William And Princess Kate's Marriage today! =)
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